Okay, it's about time I posted a story.First a quick update:
I am in Vrindaven- the holy city of Krishna- where chanting happens 24 hours a day! I left Goa a couple days ago- after much grief and hassle we (me an Al) were able to book 1 train ticket in sleeper class. We had to pay for 2 seats though ( the total was 20 USD) for a 28 hours train ride. Not so bad. And while we waited for the train, we had to spend the night in Madgaon, a city in Goa- which we hopped on the opportunity to go to the movies! It was a Bollywood film of a cheesy plot, and amazing singing and dancing! There were only about 5 other men in the theater. It was mostly in a language called Tergu, but i was surprised at the random English words thrown about. And when someone in the movie smokes or drinks a little blurb comes at the bottom in English that says, " Alcohol/smoking is injurious for your health."
The train ride was nice and smooth for the most part- we had only 1 seat which is fine in the day time but at night Al offered to sleep on the floor on my yoga mat. She is a trooper- but the seats aren't much better anyway. The car we were in was filled with Kashmiri Students and a few other tourists. We got lucky. No old men tempted to grab my breasts, while spitting lugies and picking their nose. I had some interesting conversations with the students, which some of your may get to hear more about in person. We were supposed to go to Delhi- but we were passing thru our stop that we needed to get off which is 2-4 hours south of Delhi- we were napping and woke to the train stopping to find out that due to maintenance of the track we were able to hop off and save ourselves 6 hours! The town we entered was Mathura and it was beautiful and real India and only 15 km to our destination! Al and I both had bright eyes! And now were are here, very sleepy but very excited to experience new things!
Okay, so now my story as to why Indian's care!
They all remember our names. What we buy, where we are from. Literally everyone. A friend I was travelling with was here, in India, 1 year ago. When we got off the bus to get a rickshaw they were all talking to her saying, you were here 1 year ago! And the same happened when we got to the guest house! It's so crazy. Everyone I meet remembers my name. And the reason why they do, is because they actually care. And that is why Indians are known for their lax time- it's more important to bond with others than be punctual.
It's a nice change :)